As within, so without !

What you put out is what you get back ! As within, so without, it is as simple as that. What you get back from the universe is nothing but a reflection of your inner world !

It means that you are an active player and participator in life whether you like it or not. It gives you a huge responsability in life !

Are there things going on in your life right now, things you would really want to get rid off ?

You can only be affected by something or someone if you agree with it. Only by your agreement (unconscious or conscious) you can attract and experience it in your life.

I will give you a personal example that will show you how important our regular and repetitive thoughts, words and emotions are. A while ago I was wondering why we – as a family unit – couldn’t manifest more money to do the things we really wanted.

The moment extra money came in, the car or the laundry machine broke down, making the repair a priority… Or the moment we saved enough money to do something special, the money got stolen or a bill came in for the same amount.

We were both desperate ! What was happening ? My partner said : “Why can’t it be easy ? I want us to have a normal family life. I don’t even ask for anything special or out of the ordinary, I just want us to be happy together…”



Then I replied : “I know how you are feeling, I feel exactely the same way darling, I hope our money issues don’t burden our relationship too much, all I care about is our love, money can be stolen from me !”

It dawned on me that the universe had given us exactely what we wanted, it simply affirmed all of our statements and said a big YES to it !

Money isn’t important, it can be stolen from me…”Aye aye sir!”, “Roger that”, the universe answered and the money got up in smoke…

This was the obstruction to our abundance, this was the king-pin to deal with !

You can create your paradise on earth, it is completely in your hands, it is completely up to you. Nothing else controls you. Nothing else can ! Nothing else has the power to !

The universe doesn’t say that you are wrong or right, you do ! The universe doesn’t say that you are good or bad, you do ! The universe doesn’t judge, you are the judge !

The universe always supports you in anything that you do and always gives you what you’re asking for.

As above, so below ! As within so without !


Phuro! Be inspired!




The sea of Love

“Love sets you free – not thinking”

When we feel separated from Source, we start being weary or feel uncomfortable in our skin. We are out of alignment and need to restore the balance.

The more we are disconnected from our heart, the harder this separation feels and symptoms of discouragement, disease and depression usually follow. You start to carry attachments with you.

Instead of swimming in the ocean you are sinking to the bottom where it is all dark and muddy. Untill you see a light above that catches your attention. You are curious about it but in order to rise higher you have to leave the weight of the past behind…


Fish live in water and can’t be separated from it as it is their lifeforce ! We humans can’t be separated from Love ! In Love we live, move and have our being !

In Love we are in full command and power. As we love unconditionally, we have the complete ocean of cosmic Love with us. It is the essence of our being !

“Come with me, my love. To the sea. The sea of Love. I want to tell you how much I love you.”

What if this song isn’t just a love song from one person to another but an exclusive message for you from the universe ?

What if it is an expression of its love for you or an invitation to return home to Source where the drop unifies with the ocean again and no longer feels separated.

You surrendered and found yourself immersed in a sea of Love !



Phuro! Be inspired!

Expect the unexpected !


This weekend I again thought about my personal mantra : Release, Relax and Recreate, a method that I use to efficiently surf the incoming energy waves.

Saturday had already been a day of releasing, so sunday was relaxing time ! No need to put pressure on myself ! There was a family dinner planned in a restaurant, we took place in the garden and ordered our drinks. As usual water, white and red wine were brought to our table…

I was ready to enjoy a nice dinner in my family’s presence under the warmth of the sun. Suddenly I had flashbacks of my lessons in wine etiquette and I decided to put them into practise.

I’m not used to drink wine, I only drink it now and then, on occasion and usually one glass is sufficient to cover hours at the table.

My former boss tried to convert me to the wine drinkers club several times, but all to no avail. One of his first remarks during my lessons in wine etiquette was : “You are a beer drinker, I can tell that immediately !”

He looked me straight in the eyes. I thought he was preparing for some kind of eye staring contest or dual, then he moved his hands towards his glass, his fingertips gently touched the base of the stem, he kept staring at me while he put his glass to his mouth.

Apparently he was awaiting my move ! I tried to give him the same authorious look and confidently moved my hand towards my glass, then instinctively my hand enfolded the entire bowl of the glass as I lifted it towards my mouth !

“Gotcha”, my boss exclaimed !

I had to confess he was right, It dawned on me that this wasn’t an elegant and civilized manner to drink wine. But hey…we lived in different worlds ! Instantly there were flashbacks in my head of bbq’s amongst friends, soccer games and after parties, concerts and festivals. I had difficulties imagining the same scenarios at the golf club !

Back to the now, I decided to pour a small amount of red wine in my glass but then my eyes caught the label on the bottle, making me quickly forget again all forms of etiquette and rules !

Spirit had a funny way of giving me the next clue in my “recreation process” : On the South African Cabernet Sauvignon bottle was written : “Expect the unexpected” ! The name “ONVERWACHT”, means unexpected in my native language aswell. WACHT means to wait, to have patience…I was stunned !

The universe has its own ways to make something clear to us. I wonder what message you got this time….


Phuro! Be inspired!



Walking the Middle Way

“Voidness is that which stands right in the middle between this and that. The void is all-inclusive, having no opposite – there is nothing which it excludes or opposes. It is a living void, because all forms come out of it and whoever realizes the void, is filled with life and power and the love of all beings.”

Bruce Lee

We often tend to swing from one extreme to the other…We take away power by force or we are victim of power mongers ourselves. We’re always in one big power game.

We swing from depths to heights, experience highs and lows, ups and downs, but we always shy away from the middle ! What happens in the middle ? Why are we so afraid of Nothingness ?

What happens when we don’t participate in drama anymore ?

What if we jumped off the roundabout that limits us to our lower states ? What if we stop continuously swinging back and forth from one extreme to the other : from fear to anger, from happy to sad…

We can escape this prison and go even beyond the happy and sad level and reach the space of non attachement to eighter good or bad, the state of oneness and bliss.

We can go beyond time, where in and out are melting together, past and future are blending, time just ceases and collapses into one narrow point.


Toroidal energy fields exist around everything.  People. Trees. Earth. Planets. The Sun. The Universe. Us.

Our electromagnetic body is also a toroid. All toroids have a black hole (negatively charged) at one end and a white hole (positively charged) at the other. Black holes suck in energy and white holes emit it.

The torus allows a vortex of energy to form which bends back along itself and re-enters itself. It ‘inside-outs’, continuously flowing back into itself. The energy of the torus is continually refreshing itself, continually influencing itself.

When the torus is in balance and the energy is flowing we are in a perfect state to clear ourselves of anything that is not corresponding to our highest self.

The zero point occurs at the junction of the white hole and the black hole, it’s a vacuum.  This void energises all living organisms. It neutralises harmful frequencies and increases our spiritual awareness, our sense of oneness.

We reach this point of singularity when we surrender to our higher selves, it happens quite naturally when the mind body connection is strong,  when our mind is quiet and peaceful and when loving understanding flows in our heart.

In this higher state we generate energy easily and we are able to create limitlessly.

The only thing that stops us from accessing our unlimited potential is the belief that we can’t access it. The only limitations are the ones we are imposing on ourselves.

Walking the middle way is walking through the narrow gate, cleared from attachements, it is clearly seeing and accessing the tools you already had from the start to navigate through this world, your world, your universe.

It is a indeed a moment of revelation when you understand that you can deliberately adjust your level of creation and create a whole new world !

Phuro! Be inspired!