Tell me what it takes

“I am the center of my own web of circumstances and as I change so must my outer world.”


Maybe you stumbled on this website because you were looking for inspiration or motivation, maybe you were looking for help or assistance because you feel blocked in life. Maybe you just feel alone or not understood by your surroundings. Maybe you are awakening and you realize that it isn’t an easy process and you wonder if other people are experiencing the same.

I know it is not always easy to tell out loud what you feel inside, or to participate in another dumbed-down daily life conversation again. I know what it feels like being in no-man’s land, being an outlaw, fitting in nowhere ! The awakening process often brings you to dark places and leaves you scarred, not knowing who you truly are.

“There’s a blue moon
Or a bright sun
Shining in every sky
Better think twice
Before this life baby
Just passes you by”



Maybe as a child you were told several times you couldn’t do something, or you were beaten and you grew up feeling unappreciated, unworthy or worse : unloved ! It can be difficult to bring all these experiences up to the surface and to find your king-pin, your oppressor, your core resisting thoughts and beliefs !

But as you move through the pain and shed all this old stuff, you will gain more confidence in yourself. When you feel drained by the struggle in life, sometimes all it takes is a spark of faith ! Sooner or later there will be a turning point where you finally start letting go, detaching yourself from all these low inner states.

“Everyone knows there’s no
Sure way of telling
Which way to go
Open your heart
Come on let’s start
Making a new love grow”*

What’s it worth ?

You are. You are worth it ! You are worth to not only live or exist but you are worth to live a happy life ! If you are not convinced by this statement then you still resist your own happiness !

Keep stripping off all these limited identities and conditions and accept the Being that you are. Accept how powerful you are and start flowing with life again !

I hope you are a visitor ready for self empowerment, ready to take another outlook on life, I hope this is a place where you can feel at ease and start being at peace with yourself !

“Tell me what is takes
Tell me what it takes
To get a happy look
And a smile on your face
Tell me what it takes
Tell me what it takes
To make the sadness end
And start living again”*


Phuro! Be inspired!


*Song : Tell me what it takes ~Soulsister







Hush my darling

Hush my darling, don’t fear my darling the lion sleeps tonight…

A few days ago this song popped into my head. I felt compelled to know why, I needed to explore it further. It reminded me of my childhood, it reminded me of Nietzsche and his three stages of human transformation, starting with the camel, the lion and ending with the child.

A child-like spirit is vital to happiness, health, and well-being. “The child is innocence and forgetting, a new beginning, a sport, a self-propelling wheel, a Sacred Yes”, Nietzsche said. The lion becomes a child when life is no longer a reactive struggle to defeat other forces. Life becomes a celebration.

We are at the final crossroads where we finally understand what needs to be done to fully free ourselves from our imaginary cages. The key lies in our consciousness, in our willingness to shed the old completely and create at a different level.

We are all renewing our vows, vows we made a long time ago. We are remembering where we came from and what we came here to do.

Our time is now to dive deeply into the water, not just tip toe in it. It is time we drink the water and not just taste it on our lips !

We are invited to join NOW, the universe awaits our decision and asks : Are you in or out ? What’s it going to be ?

Your task as a bridger and mediator wasn’t an easy one. You fell in the booby traps of the matrix, you sunk deep in the rabbithole. Your bridge couldn’t hold the weight anymore and started cracking and it eventually collapsed, the walls of Babylon came down…


Your structure collapsed because it wasn’t based on a proper foundation, it didn’t correspond to the laws of the universe, the law of one. So you fell, all the way down.

Only to discover something else at the bottom : Your essence, your I AM, your true foundation !

You have to rebuild your bridge from zero but this time you have help from some new and powerful friends : courageousness and faith, self acceptance and peace !

Relax and return to your foundation, your “I AM” and start generating love for yourself first ! Once you feel that energy abundantly and overflowing, let it flow to your family and friends, then broaden it to your city and your country aswell, let it envelop the whole world and finally let it encompass the whole universe…this is the ultimate love affair !

Be quiet and relax even more deeply, you will see that everything is returned to you again…because you are that universe !

You can’t erase yourself out of this experience. Even death can’t to that !


Phuro! Be inspired!





Find your king-pin !

“I now exercise my fearless faith in three ways : THINKING, SPEAKING AND ACTING. I am UNMOVED by appearances, therefore appearances MOVE.”

Florence Scovel Shinn

Everyone who is into metaphysics surely knows the works of Florence Scovel Shinn. She has written several books, her most known one is “The game of life and how to play it”

An important thing I remember about her work is that she talked about finding your king-pin, the thought which is your great oppressor, the thought which is blocking you from moving forward in life.

In the logging camps in the Spring, the logs are sent down the rivers in great numbers. Sometimes the logs become crossed and cause a jam. The men look for the log causing the jam (they call it the king-pin), straighten it, and the logs rush down the river again.

Just as with the logs that can get stuck by this king-pin, our natural flow of energy can be blocked, emotional debris are piled up due to our habitual negative thinking. This includes all our doubts, our fears, our worries…

Are you experiencing an impasse in your life ? You have done everything you can to make something work, but you are standing still, there seems to be no movement at all !

What is your logjam in your mind where you can’t get over ? What is preventing you from finding your happiness right now ?

It’s difficult to find the cause by just thinking about it, our ego will often get in the way and may bring up things that aren’t truthful, maybe you’ll start overthinking, which will only result in more worry and doubt !

The easist way to detect your king-pin is to release the emotion accompagnying the problem. My favorite way of tracing these trapped emotions is with Dr. Nelson’s emotion code. (If you would like to read the book, have access to the chart and the questions you can contact me on to receive a free pdf version)


I suggest you teach yourself some basic muscle testing skills as this is necessary to detect these emotions. The more you practise the more confident you will become ! A body magnet is also a very useful tool to fully release the emotions !

You can experience headaches or other physical discomfort afterwards but these are just signs that your body is flushing away the negativity. This is only temporary and a good indication that your body is releasing these stored emotions.

Most of the times when I do a release on myself, the oppressive thought, or the cause of the blockage will just pop up in my head after a while. Then I am conscious of what has been blocking me all this time. A feeling of “AHA” is usually what follows !

If we would use this technique regularly to let go of the stuff we have been accumulating, we would find ourselves being more healthy, more energetic and even more succesful and wealthy.

Dear empaths, dear lovers of life, this life can be tough, for some it is a struggle to survive in this materialistic word. Know that you don’t need to be spiritual and poor. Abundance is here for all. You have to find your king-pin blocking your abundance !

As Florence wrote : “Most people consider life to be a battle, but it is not a battle, it is a game. It is a game, however, which cannot be played succesfully without knowledge of spiritual law. All power is given to men (through right thinking) to bring his heaven upon his earth and this is the goal of the game of life. The simple rules are fearless faith, nonresistance and love !”


Phuro! Be inspired!




Up in smoke !

“Thoughts are spiritual energies. They embody a power; a power which humanity today is barely aware of. A thought born of love can inspire a person to lay down his life for another. A thought spawned from hatred can drive him to kill another. Beware of every evil thought!”

Bruno Gröning

Life is colorless for a lot of people. Black. Dark. Clouded at day and clouded at night. Demons suck them dry. Dark thoughts are constantly passing by…

It isn’t always easy to spot those people or to see through their fake smile. The darkness can hide very well and is not easily caught with the eyes…

Fighting darkness is fighting against a jail we created ourselves, a jail without doors. We keep the jail alive by projecting dark thoughts on it.

It is a never ending battle. When we are in struggle mode we condemn and complain. We blame and judge ourselves and others. We are reactive and opposing so resentment, anger and despair is all that follows.


The flame fades inside, our core goes up in smoke once we have taken on the devil’s token. We completely forgot how to recharge ourselves so we burn up, we burn out…Then there’s complete meltdown !

When we continue to put energy in darkness, we stay hypnotised and triggered by the force of the jail.

If we would stop our negative thinking the walls would crumble down. The idea of being in prison would completely disappear. The moment we give up the struggle we are completely free of it !

For the souleaters to leave we have to nourish ourselves with positivity again.

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If we want to break free from enslavement, we have to let go of the idea of the jail. If we want to be free from disease, we have to let go of the thought of disease. If we want to be free from all the turbulence in our life,  we need to think peace….

We can create a fresh outlook for ourselves and discover real life ! We only need to accept our true power, our real sovereignty !

Love is more powerful than anything on earth. Nothing else can ever reinstall a person’s worth.

So step up Higher and be still and let all be perfected in Divine Will.

Phuro! Be inspired!