No, not me !

Have you ever been at the mall, spotted someone you know and then tried everything to avoid them ?

You turned on your stealth mode and hid behind mannequins and plants, you squeezed yourself into tiny lockers, you even put on several disguises… All to no avail !

Suddenly you felt a presence behind you, a hand on your shoulder. You turned around and yep ! Busted !

Then you were engulfed by an avalanche of complaints, gossip and other poisonous words. You can’t recall having bought tickets for that show !

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There you were, stuck for a indefinite period of time until you got the guts to abort the conversation or took a chance to escape…

Luckily, we conscious empaths and sensitives, have a built in bullshit radar, we sense when people try to steal or drain our energy !

We don’t like to be pulled in drama and negativity.

Keeping at a distance from such people isn’t rude nor selfish !

It is a matter of self-preservation to keep your energy bright and clear !

So repeat after me :

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Phuro! Be inspired!

 

Seriously ?

One of the challenges of being highly sensitive is how to respond to injustice. Highly sensitive persons or empaths are extremely sensitive to negativity and they spot discrepancies and imbalances in people, groups and organisations like no other !

They are often surprised about the way things are going and they can’t really hide how they are feeling about it.

They wanna shout BULLSHIT whenever they hear or see it, take appropiate action or just leave the fucking place !

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When an empath processes “data” and digests it through his or her sensitive organ of intuition, it is often translated into vivid facial expressions.

It’s their instinctual reaction when they spot lies, immorality and inhumanity. They easily see who’s genuine or fake. They sense people’s real intentions, that’s a great asset !

There’s just one pitfall : they can easily get blown away by people’s energy, knocked out of their center, knocked out of balance !

Once sucked in negative mode they are quickly crowned king or queen of sarcasm, constantly growling, eating their own hearts out…

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If this sounds familiar to you : Don’t let it happen ! That’s not the real you ! You are just mirroring back these people’s feelings. You can consciously choose and transcend this level and regain confidence in yourself !

You can refuse to be pulled in drama, you can decide not to respond negatively. You can be conscious of what you let in or out !

Nothing can shake you if you return to your foundation for support and guidance, if you return to who you are and take care of your own energy !

Focus on your state of BEING, you are in complete control, you are the only one able to turn things around for your own well-being !

 

   Phuro! Be inspired!

Me minus drama !

Although everyone is looking for happiness, the search is futile because what you are looking for exists already here now. You’ll be happy once you are living a life you don’t need to escape from !

What keeps you away from this ultimate freedom are your thoughts that you constantly project to past or future events, leaving you unhappy.

So you need distractions from life and as a way to cope with the sadness and pain you create all kind of diversions, but you are not really able to experience true happiness !

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Maybe you had a fabulous weekend and had fun with friends, but soon that monday morning feeling kicked in and you were sucked back into misery and meaninglessness.

Life is painful for many people and many suffer from mental health issues ! They’re not feeling good in their skin, even youngsters are already exhausted from life or feeling too apathetic to participate in life !

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Happiness to me is a state of being in the now, being fully present. Unbounded, non attached. It is ME MINUS DRAMA !

It is free from complaints and compliance to life’s situations that drag me in darkness and depression.

It is free from the pressure to perform and free from the pain of going against my grain so I don’t feel burned out or bored out anymore.

It is stripped off the belief that life is a struggle and a survival of the strongest !

It is consciously choosing how to react to life and interact with the people around me !

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When something goes wrong, are you going in the same direction ? Are you participating in negativity, adding fuel to the fire ?

Are you rather passive or apathetic towards what happens around you ? You don’t care, that’s their problem, whatever,…!

Or do you decide to be the observer and be present, completely balanced and centered, being able to choose the way that is non judgmental and feels good to all ?

WHO ARE YOU MINUS THE DRAMA ?

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Phuro! Be inspired!