When two become one

If you are already in a relationship with your soulmate or twin flame, what I am about to write will sound very familiar.

You are literally dealing with your other half, it’s a magical match made in heaven a long time ago !

When two become one

It creates a powerful unit when twins reunite. ‘One and one equals two’ isn’t the correct answer ! When these two are added the result is exponentially more ! What is bound in heaven isn’t added but multiplied, to the power of the 144,000 !

They carry the Divine blueprint of creation and remember their soul essence and power when they merge. Together they radiate a powerful energy, Love is amplified and unified as One.

“Love is the glue that holds this universe together.”

A powerful magnetic pull

They can be separate for long but they are destined to find each other. And when they do, they become inseparable, you can’t have one without the other…

They are drawn to each other like glue, there’s a constant magnetism between them. The further they are removed from each other, the more painful the separation feels. It’s like a rubber stretched to its limits : it creates a lot of tension !

Telepathic connection

Although apart, there is always a telepathic connection between them and they usually sense when there is something wrong with their twin or when the other needs assistance.

Both can have very vivid and prophetic dreams or even share or remember dreams about their past and future together.

A sensitive liaison

No need to lie about their whereabouts, they both sense when their partner isn’t truthful. These issues usually pass very quickly as there is no need to hide anything in this relationship. No need to put a mask on ! They both see through inauthenticity…

 

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Yin-yang

They are yin and yang, light and shadow, male and female, they are each other’s poles. They complement and complete one another. He is the light in her dark, she is the light in his dark.

This constant push-pull creates a tumultuous and complex relationship. They push each other’s buttons several times because of the mirroring between them. They usually have important shadow work to do ! There is a lot to be played out as they trigger each other’s fears and angers.

Together they can transmute an enormous amount of old energies which effect ripples through to the collective for the benefit of all.

“If your path is more difficult, it is because of your high calling.”

Challenges and tests

They can go through many challenges : their faith and strength can be tested to the maximum, they can experience hardship in various areas of their life.

When one finds him/herself experiencing a tough time or going through a particular transition, their twin is often there to support, guide or protect them. Whenever one of them falls in the trap of self-pity or blame, the other will sustain the Higher vision instead of instantly gratifying their partner’s emotions.

They can help one another rise above issues they normally wouldn’t be able to solve all by themselves.

They lift the other one up when they are down. When they are doubtful, they remind their partner of their divinity….It’s definitely Divine intervention !

Destined to meet

They might have met each other before or might have known each other in other lifetimes. They might unknowingly or unconsciously have already been close to each other !

They may live in each other’s neighbourhood for years, having any knowledge of each other’s existence or they may find their twin in another corner of the world !

They could have met by accident, in an unusual way, it was a coincidence !

Catalyst for growth

They both fulfill the role of teacher and student as they learn from each other, they help each other grow spiritually or assist in the awakening process of their partner.

They are benefitted by their bond : they need each other to sustain the higher vision they both share or need assistance from their partner to complete a particular mission.

They are each other’s catalyst for growth. Although they won’t immediately give you what you want, they will give you exactly what you need !

Attachment and non attachment

They don’t try to change one another. They can be free and bonded at the same time, the relationship doesn’t feel restrictive ! It feels safe and comforting but isn’t suffocating.

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A Big Bang !

You all know what happens when two stars collide : there is a big explosion ! When God made its creation, male and female were separated and moved away from each other, but since the magnetism is still there, they feel incomplete and they long to unify and become one once again…

Once you’ve met your twin, your world will be shaken : There has been a sacred love explosion, a Big Bang !

No matter what sex means to you right now : a play, a power game, a love connection or just something physical… Keep in mind that it is a powerful exchange of energy and it can eighter be destructive or constructive depending on the intent both partners have during sexual intercourse.

Twin flames work towards balance in their relationship : sex isn’t the usual power game anymore, it is a sacred union. They feel their oneness ! They don’t feel guilty about their sexual appetite as this kind of passionate madness is normal in a twin relationship !

Pitfalls

The mind minds

Pitfalls and booby traps usually come from the ego, it is again the mind that minds and causes to question the relationship. It can bring up all kinds of excuses why it shouldn’t be : the partner is too young or too old, it feels ‘too good to be true’ or ‘not meant to be’. The heart feelings are denied because of fears and resistance.

Energy vampirism & psychic attacks

They are prone to energy vampires because of their magnetic vibration. Be aware of those who literally can’t stand the light ! They will try to pull you down or pull you away from each other by spreading lies or by despising your relationship. Even close family members can be totally against the relationship.

People sense there is “something” about twin flames and have the tendency to oppose that which they can’t grasp or understand !

And if you would ask me how a twin relationship feels, my answer would be this :

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More than fun !

I am looking forward to next sunday as Reflex goalkeepers school, where I volunteer as mental coach have their season’s celebration !

Their last practise of the season is finished in style :  the kids receive their certificate, often in presence of a well known soccer player and everyone is treated to a delicious bbq !

My reward for the kids is as usual play ! Spring time is “Phuro bubbles” time and excellent time to get the kids out of their heads and back in play mode !

Why are these large inflatable balls helpful and useful in coaching…?

The fun factor !

There is nothing more motivating than to have fun in sports ! It really isn’t all about seriousness and performances all the time…Keep it balanced and avoid too much  pressure.

Besides the hard work you already put in your practises, you have to be able to blow off steam regularly…

Bubble soccer seems scary at first but once you find out you really can’t hurt yourself, you can loosen up and have fun ! Then the giggling and screaming usually starts…

Isn’t it wonderful to see happy faces ?

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A physical challenge !

Playing bubble soccer is a physical challenge ! Luckily the players are in good shape ! The parents are often curious and excited to try it out aswell, but many of them admit, they wake up the next morning having muscle pain all over their bodies !

Ten minutes to the max and everyone is out of air and thursty as hell ! It is very important to hydrate regularly when you’re playing !

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Upside down !

Mental coaching is learning kids how to focus again. It often means putting things “upside down”, putting things back in perspective, creating a different outlook on things !

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A mental challenge

Besides physical strength the right mental attitude is necessary to be more resilient to vicious tackles !

Visualisations

As you know famous soccer players like to use visualisations before playing an important game. In bubble soccer the inflatable bubble is your protective suit.

If during a soccer game you have the tendency to shy away from the ball, you can create a imaginative protective shield around you just the size of the bubble ball.

Keep your self-talk positive : It’s your ball, you are going to take it !

Positive thoughts and emotions

To feel strong and to be strong you have to keep your thoughts positive ! You can use AK (Applied kinesiology) to see what effect your thoughts have on your body feeling and strength.

Negative thoughts and emotions will weaken your body, the positive ones will strengthen them. Keep that in mind when you tackle someone…The angry one isn’t always the strongest ! Who’s going to be the last man standing….?

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Our energy field

The bubble ball can be likened to your own natural energy field. Every living being (even our planet) has this energy field around its body. These fields can influence each other and are able to communicate with each other ! This isn’t about communication through language but through vibrations. Read more : We are electromagnetic beings

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Blogging is challenging !

Yes, blogging is challenging ! Not because of the lack of inspiration, there’s plenty of that ! I am often inspired by daily life, the ponderings of my mind or the many inspirational reads from fellow bloggers !

The challenging part is the disturbance around me, just when I am in the middle of my “writer’s trance” !

Challenge n°1 is a teenager and soccer player, constantly craving for food. “Mom, what are we eating ?” “Mom, I am hungry, can you prepare me a snack ?”

“Just a minute son !”

“Mom ?”

“Bear with me son !”

Half an hour later he’s obliged to ask the same questions again, making me feel a distracted mother neglecting my child’s primal needs…I stumble to the kitchen…

Challenge n°2 are other beings in the house who use other, advanced methods of attracting my attention when they are hungry…Cats !

Although James looks an innocent and devoted cat, he’s very convincing and stubborn but predictable in his actions ! He often seems a child throwing up a tantrum. When he’s in hungry mode I have to watch every step I take, he always aims at my legs, preventing me from going out of the kitchen !

Or he violently jumps on the table, unable to control his landing ! He lost his sense of equilibrium, after his tail got amputated (due to an injury). Now he has no brakes at all and my laptop usually means “bulls eye” !

Complete mindfulness in seconds ! (Try that yourself !) He drops unconscious on my keyboard ! Playing dead !

What follows seems to be a discussion between my puberal son and me !

“James, get off my computer !” “No mom !”

“James, mom needs to work !” “Who cares mom !”

“James, I am going to pick you up !” “Not funny, mom !”

There is only one way to get rid of him : pushing him gently by his butt off the computer, shoving him to the left of my keyboard.

One moment of distraction, a sip from my cup of coffee is enough to get him plotting  against me again ! There’s his head back on my keyboard, followed by his paws, all stretched out, ready to take a nap!

His favorite occupations on my laptop : asking help from windows, putting on his favorite music on Foobar or complete shutdown !

I once thought I was hallucinating when I found my screen completely turned upside down. (You can press and hold the Ctrl and Alt keys while pressing left, right, up, down to rotate the screen in a different direction, little did I know !) Allthough it inspired me to use upon my colleagues on april fools’ day !

My fingers are barely allowed to touch the mouse. In my cats’ attempts to draw my hand off it, they often start writing their own language : 54ùopùm4l4i48ù or µµµµµµµµµµµµµµ

If you happen to read a message like this, I was probably hijacked by one of the cats who prevented me from blogging ! Here is the proof !

 

 

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