How to win friends

The How to Win Friends IQ Matrix summarizes the classic book “How to Win Friends and Influence People” written by Dale Carnegie. It helps to unlock ideas that will allow you to influence other people’s decisions, actions and behavior. The article provides suggestions on how to influence people; pinpoints ways to make people like you, outlines techniques to win people over to your way of … Lees verder How to win friends

Cut it out bullies…

I don’t have to tell anyone the difference between a bully and a victim or an agressor and a defender. But what do bullies and their victims have in common? They are both “unbalanced” and swing between anger and fear ! Some kids grow up in harsh environments, without any signs of affection or words of support and appreciation. Some have to confront a bully … Lees verder Cut it out bullies…

Soccer is a TEAM sport II

Be involved ! Mental coaching isn’t about shouting uplifting words all the times or telling a player he needs more confidence, that’s just not enough. Tell him something he doesn’t know yet ! HOW he can get more confidence…WHAT does he need to do ? He wants a solution, not just having the problem shoved under his nose again… Sometimes we believe our children aren’t … Lees verder Soccer is a TEAM sport II

Visualisation

Visualisation is all about selecting the right mental images ! Using your imagination is very important in all creative processes ! You are about to do something that makes you fearful. Now you can tell your subconscious mind : “Don’t be afraid” or ou can make a mental picture of your fear and say “Don’t do that !” The subconscious will only see the picture … Lees verder Visualisation