Me minus drama !

Although everyone is looking for happiness, the search is futile because what you are looking for exists already here now. You’ll be happy once you are living a life you don’t need to escape from ! What keeps you away from this ultimate freedom are your thoughts that you constantly project to past or future…

It ain’t over till…

What a World Cup full of surprises ! We have seen several soccer giants leave early…exit Spain, Portugal, Germany…but hey we are still in the running for the title ! Belgium believes ! On june 23th we had the opportunity to watch the game Belgium-Tunisia in the VRT studios in Brussels ! We were all…

The power of imagination

Life is a process of learning, unlearning and relearning. Remember when they told you : “It’s just your imagination ! Put your dreams away ! You can’t do that !” Let the words of the greatest convince you of the power of your imagination ! Be inspired!

Silence is a savior

It was a normal Sunday morning when Richard and his son were heading off to football together…Richard was among those parents who liked to help out at the club where his son played, and he enjoyed running the line during his son’s matches. But by the end of the day Richard was fighting for his…

Show some respect !

It’s saturday and I am preparing myself to play a soccer game with my team ! I am completely motivated, I can’t wait to be on the field…Let the game begin ! Today is a very special day : it is bring-your-family-to-soccer day ! And boy oh boy am I lucky ! A bunch of…

Best buddies…

Do you have a buddy, a BFF, someone you tell all your secrets to, who is always there for you, usually at the right time and the right place ? Have you ever been wondering why helping others seems to be a piece of cake for them ? Why everything they say and do is…

More than fun !

I am looking forward to next sunday as Reflex goalkeepers school, where I volunteer as mental coach have their season’s celebration ! Their last practise of the season is finished in style :  the kids receive their certificate, often in presence of a well known soccer player and everyone is treated to a delicious bbq…

Summoning a dragon

This is the story about a boy and his pets, a tiger and a snake. Pets the boy already had since birth, but that he was obliged to separate ! They couldn’t get along, they couldn’t stand each other ! Even being in the same room was painful, so he had them moved, the one far…

How to win friends

The How to Win Friends IQ Matrix summarizes the classic book “How to Win Friends and Influence People” written by Dale Carnegie. It helps to unlock ideas that will allow you to influence other people’s decisions, actions and behavior. The article provides suggestions on how to influence people; pinpoints ways to make people like you,…

Cut it out bullies…

I don’t have to tell anyone the difference between a bully and a victim or an agressor and a defender. But what do bullies and their victims have in common? They are both “unbalanced” and swing between anger and fear ! Some kids grow up in harsh environments, without any signs of affection or words…