It is almost impossible for me to stay silent about the different events taken place in the media concerning the sexual harassement of women. And I’m not only talking about what is happening in Hollywood, it’s a worldwide problem and now we have our own case here in Belgium widely covered by the media and I am really surprised about people’s reactions !

Some of the stuff I read online :

“What is wrong with all these actresses ? They don’t mind being naked on screen but they can barely handle some sexy text messages, they must have smelled money ! “

“If you find flirting behaviour embarrasing, just tell it. You don’t have to ruin another man’s life for it.”

It depends on what your definition is of flirting…Honestly I believe that we all know damn well the difference between a person innocently flirting and a predator !

#metoo A lot of people were surprised how many women were worldwide reacting with this hashtag. Well I wasn’t surprised at all, I have to admit that as an empath a lot of people tell me their life stories spontanously and  I have never encountered a woman who didn’t have any similar nasty experience in her life…

Yes #metoo and I was only three years old when I was a victim of such a predator. And no it wasn’t a stranger… It did affect my life deeply and for years I wasn’t able to put aside the memories and the emotions and all the impressions it left on me. I wasn’t raped, but touched by an adult in an inappropriate way ! Even a little child senses that this behaviour is wrong ! But since there wasn’t any other adult around, and I was crying and in distress, I grew up with the belief that I couldn’t trust men and that no matter how much I would shout for help, there would be nobody there to help me…I can only imagine how hard it is for women who have been raped, it leaves them scarred, scared, damaged, traumatized for the rest of their lives.

Are we trying to diminish what damage can be done when a person is subject to unappropriate sexual behaviour ? Why do we protect the predator and not the victims ?


Because there is something fundamentally wrong with society ! Pedophilia is actually promoted in the media, women are still considered as an object of lust. Pure meat…      Our children are brainwashed and indoctrinated by the media at early age. (Haven’t you noticed what kind of subtle messages are hidden in the Disney cartoons ?) You are not considered “cool” or “sexy” when you don’t match society’s standards. Women are still blamed because of eating from the tree of knowledge of good and evil…What a crap !

Blaming women, treating them like shit it’s the same as blaming your mother for giving you birth ! If you are someone who can’t get his hands off women or you can’t respect a NO…then tell me : would you consider it normal, when other men did the same things to your daughter ?

Aren’t you yourself enslaved by all these tv series showing dysfunctional families and relationships ? Are you putting all the so called role models of society on a piedestal, worshipping them ?

Isn’t it time that we all step forward, men and women and start caring about the values and morals we teach to our children and teach them to respect other people ?

Phuro! Be inspired!


Auteur: Wiena

Be inspired ! Wiena Robert, mental coach & life coach, Belgium. Topics : Mental strength, emotional detachment, personal growth & transformation, spiritual development & awakening. Website EN : www.phuro.be Op de site BALANS IN SPORT EN LEVEN sta ik jullie als mental coach & life coach met raad en daad bij en werken we aan jullie mentale kracht, emotionele weerbaarheid en persoonlijke groei ! Jullie vinden er heel wat interessante artikels, tips en weetjes, checklisten en dossiers terug. Website NL : https://balansinsportenleven.wordpress.com

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