Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

“People often say that “beauty is in the eye of the beholder,” and I say that the most liberating thing about beauty is realizing that you are the beholder. This empowers us to find beauty in places where others have not dared to look including inside ourselves.”

Salma Hayek

When you are feeling unhappy, insecure, ugly or stupid, tell me… When was the last time you saw beauty in this world ? When was the last time you genuinely smiled at someone or gave someone a compliment ? When was the last time you enjoyed a night sky ? When was the last time you were amazed by this magnificent universe ? When were you in awe for the last time ? When did you lose your joie-de-vivre, your modjo ? Who were you giving that power to ?

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It is a matter of perception. It is a conscious choise ! You are giving more importance to the illusions that seem to steal your happiness away, you are creating all kinds of armor and defense mechanisms within yourself that disable you to open your heart completely to the being that you are.

You tell yourself : “Maybe one day I’ll be happy but…”, or : “I am not this because…” Why not “I feel so fucking good when…!!!!, I feel so fucking great because…!!!!” When did you stop telling nice things to yourself ? That you matter, that you are worthy of your happiness ? That you really are amazing ? Did you feel uncomfortable reading this ?

You are a beautiful, amazing, joyful being !

If you don’t like what you see in the mirror, I know you are not ready to receive your happiness yet, or that which you desire so much !

Your selftalk should be positive, and positive feelings should follow your statements ! If you are not feeling good, you should examine your negative mindset first. What is your negative belief about the situation ? What is holding you back ? What is standing between you and your dreams ? Be conscious of your resisting thoughts and then discard them immediately, root them out and replace them with your preferred positive selftalk !

In the morning before you start your daily activities state that you will only see, feel, hear, taste, enjoy beautiful things that day. Learn to shift your focus from the things you dislike to the things you like, make a deliberate choise so that you can start attracting more beauty in your life. Like attracts like. Smile and the mirror smiles back, it is that simple !

Find out what your trapped emotions are and let go of the worries, pain and fear to make room for that which you truly are. Trust that you are a powerful creator and already have that which you are looking for !

Stop the search ! All that is required is a leap of faith ! The biggest obstacle is that you have to go beyond your five senses and your imagined identities & conditions and never deviate ! Only see beauty ! Whenever you offer the vibrational alignment of that which you desire, you are working in accordance with the universal law and everything shall be yours. What are you waiting for ?

Phuro! Be inspired!




Auteur: Wiena

Be inspired ! Wiena Robert, mental coach & life coach, Belgium. Topics : Mental strength, emotional detachment, personal growth & transformation, spiritual development & awakening. Website EN : Op de site BALANS IN SPORT EN LEVEN sta ik jullie als mental coach & life coach met raad en daad bij en werken we aan jullie mentale kracht, emotionele weerbaarheid en persoonlijke groei ! Jullie vinden er heel wat interessante artikels, tips en weetjes, checklisten en dossiers terug. Website NL :

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